Your past may be behind you… but it’s still shaping you.
Not in a dramatic, “everything is ruined” way.In a subtle, everyday way. The way you interpret someone’s tone.The way you brace for disappointment even when things are going well.The way you over-explain, pull back, people-please, stay hyper-independent, or avoid needing anyone at all. A lot of people say things like:“I’ve moved on.”“That was a long time ago.”“I’m fine now.” And often, they are functioning. But…
